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By Will Ehrenfeld

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Published: Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Updated: Tuesday, April 7, 2009

As a resident assistant in a freshman residence hall last year, I had to make and put up name tags on each door before freshmen moved in. As move-in day approached and more upperclassmen arrived to help with orientation, I noticed that a few doors had something else posted next to the name tags that I had painstakingly created. On my floor these included welcome and invitation messages for international students, African-Americans, and Hispanics. The messages included encouragements for students to stop by the Africana Center or other locations for the respective groups and contact information for a potential mentor of a similar background.
    At the time, I was curious but not really bothered by these messages. My thought was that it’s really not my place to pass judgment on overtures from and within communities that I don’t belong to and can’t identify with. Tufts people, including those mentioned above, have this need to belong — naturally. But the need here is more than just membership in a group of friends or even in a larger group with which they can identify.
    Tufts people love belonging to a minority group or, at the very least, a group that at one point has been discriminated against. I’m going to call this a thirst for victimhood. Me? I tried pretty hard to find a maligned group that I could be a part of, but I’m a straight white male from Connecticut, I don’t identify with any religious sect, nor do I have particularly outrageous political views (although I have conservative friends who might disagree). I also wonder if there are some Republicans on this campus who are really moderates in disguise — political affiliation or beliefs can be an outlet for the thirst for victimhood too.
    The interesting thing isn’t wanting to belong to a group of similar peers; psychologically and sociologically, it makes sense for a minority individual to seek out other minority group members within a larger group with whom they can identify. My concern is the self-segregation of these cliques, where groups typically don’t mix and “outsiders” aren’t welcome. We can have diversity, but it’s meaningless without social interaction.
    I’m not talking about affirmative action or anything to do with admissions — it’s the orientation process and the Dean of Students’ Office’s explicit focus on encouraging cliques that concerns me. The Group of Six is comprised of the Africana Center, Asian American Center, International Center, Latino Center, Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender (LGBT) Center, and Women’s Center. The centers are under the auspices of Dean Reitman’s office and also receive funding directly from his office. In their defense, the Group of Six houses mainly hosts events that are at least nominally open to all members of the Tufts community regardless of race, ethnicity, gender, or sexual orientation. Sometimes this is true in practice, too — I’ve availed myself of the delicious food at several barbecues at the Africana and LGBT centers. But that isn’t really the point, is it?
    Why is the Dean of Student Affairs pushing self-segregation within the student body? I applaud efforts from the Group of Six to make Tufts a welcoming environment for students from groups that have faced historical and often current discrimination, and I’m not trying to make an attack on these groups individually or the students involved. My problem, instead, is the compartmentalization and yes, segregation, albeit voluntary. What’s the benefit of diversity if everyone is separated?

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Will Ehrenfeld is a junior majoring in peace and justice studies. He can be reached at Will.Ehrenfeld@tufts.edu.

Comments

34 comments
Anon
Mon Apr 20 2009 14:37
How did this guy get his own weekly column???
Your name
Fri Apr 17 2009 11:53
GREAT ARTICLE!
sophomore
Tue Apr 14 2009 18:14
Anybody who's a majority can say, oh, that's segregation. But you know what? Outside of Tufts, not everyone has the same respect or same thoughts towards the minority groups. Some students coming to Tufts realize their identity through these programs, something they would not have learned elsewhere. Not everyone of us are looked at the same, not everywhere, especially outside of Tufts, and when incidents like these happen, those who do not realize why they are being biased against question why. To those who are the majority: Ever thought about or put a value into where you belong? Being part of a minority and majority feels definitely different and I say all these articles calling the group of six and the bias incidents "overreactions" and "unnecessary" has only the opinions from the majority point of view.
Devin Toohey
Tue Apr 14 2009 15:22
OOOOOPS!

After part 1 of my reply...i relaized i hit the wrong column.................

This is meant for todays.

Devin Toohey
Tue Apr 14 2009 15:21
Will, I'm going to be honest. I'm not usually a huge fan of your column and I think you might have been able to phrase this better....but those are side notes. Thank you. Thank you for taking a stand against mob mentality. Thank you for standing up against this witch hunt. Thank you for putting yourself out there to be labeled "racist" and the embodiment of "white privilege," instead of shrinking in the background as people destroy this kid and do all but burn him in effigy. You are incredibly brave. I put my name down here in a show of solidarity with you against the monster that I have seen arise on campus. That being said, it's a lot easier to be second (or third or fourth) than first.

The kid was a stupid drunk freshman. Let's all say it together now. Stupid. Drunk. Freshman.

And the sad thing is, I feel bad for him. I don't even know the kid. I probably would find him annoying if I met him. But I almost teared up today trying to explain this story to someone. He's a (I'll say it again) stupid drunk freshman. He made an idiot of himself. But the truth is, I don't know the full story. Stories conflict, some ones have key information that others don't, and ultimately, I find myself unable to fully assess the situation. But then again, if the tufts community took a step back...they would realize that they do not know the full story either. So let's not pass extreme judgment. Let's not crucify this kid and make him the ultimate demon of Tufts and call for his immediate explusion for being a (again) stupid drunk freshman. My problem with some versions of this story is that it becomes cartoonish, like a cliche sitcom episode where multiple characters retell a story wherein they alternatingly have halos and horns. The truth lies somewhere in between.

How convenient it is for the Tufts community that he said a racial slur. Suddenly, the issue can be safely labeled as a bias issue. It can be wrapped up with a bow and there can be rallies and facebook groups and there will be no morally gray area that could lead us to ask if there is any doubt if anyone was completely in the wrong or in the right. Suddenly, we can all prove we're not racist by ganging up on a STUPID DRUNK FRESHMAN.

Your name
Mon Apr 13 2009 17:04
Right on, man. Even if you're taking heat, this is an important dialogue to start.
Your name
Sat Apr 11 2009 00:14
Everyone loves to be a victim.

All of this recent racial tension at Tufts is infuriating. The real world isn't going to coddle you the same way that Tufts does people. Get used to the harsh realities of life.

Your name
Sat Apr 11 2009 00:00
Thank you Will, for finally saying what many of us were thinking.
Your name
Fri Apr 10 2009 11:46
"What’s the benefit of diversity if everyone is separated?"

The majority of comments are missing the entire point of the article.

Vi
Thu Apr 9 2009 17:18
"Tufts students love to belong to a minority group" huh? I can't believe that someone would write something so pathetically ignorant. Who in their right mind loves being in the minority? It's not a love! You like being the majority, because you dont have to feel self-conscious when people mention things that can be considered racist! You like being the majority because you don't have to watch what you say in fear of political correctness. You like being the majority--pure and simple. I don't think this was racist, but you have a seriously squewed mentality. Why dont you go make some minority friends and ask them if they like being the minority? This article was a waste of time. Waste of time, I say.
Bo Bappolo
Thu Apr 9 2009 14:04
Yeah so this article was pretty bad huh
Your name
Wed Apr 8 2009 23:19
Why is it, Will, that you have to take a shot at the Source or at the Republicans in every single one of your articles, even on an issue that they partially agree with you on?
Your name
Wed Apr 8 2009 23:17
Down with groupthink. Shame on all of you for identifying with an arbitrary group over your own individual identity.

Will deserves this anyway, of course.

Your name
Wed Apr 8 2009 20:45
There have been new comments since my last posting, and still I think, this cant be serious. The CAMPUS is the environment for dialogue, and the group of six centers provide support students who would like their services. They do not decree that everyone must participate, rather, those who want to do. Those who don't want to, don't. Just like Hillel and any other group a student chooses to participate in. Furthermore, there was a way to make this argument without some members of this campus being upset about it. Not all minorities are mad about your article, the comments prove it. However your wording of the argument should have been better prepared.
minority who wants nothing to do with the group of six
Wed Apr 8 2009 16:13
Looks like identity politics still has an iron grip on the Tufts mindset. HE'S ALLOWED TO EXPRESS AN OPINION, PEOPLE. will, don't let them get you down.
Your name
Wed Apr 8 2009 13:40
i'm a white girl form connecticut and i still attend culture events at all the centers and feel very accepted when I am hanging out with students of any minority. It isn't the responsibility of these groups to alter themselves to integrate into your life, it is your responsibility to seek out differences and diversify yourself.
Your name
Wed Apr 8 2009 13:23
it is not self-segregation. i am pretty confident that a majority of your friends are white males with tame religious values like yourself. it is finding people you can relate to and understand how our daily lives greatly differs from yours being part of a minority. I’m not saying you don't have A black friend or A queer friend or AN asian friend. but so do I. if you want to learn from these minorities it is your responsibility to say, go to culturefest today (not for the delicious food but to talk to the poeple there) to go to a bubble tea discussion at the asian american center, attend a qsa event or one of the gaypril happenings. go to the culture houses for more than booze on a friday or saturday night. you may feel uncomfortable at first in these situations, but no more than when an individual of ANY obvious minority walks into a room (most rooms in fact) and eyes turn because he/she is different.
Your name
Wed Apr 8 2009 09:28
it is not self-segregation. i am pretty confident that a majority of your friends are white males with tame religious values like yourself. it is finding people you can relate to and understand how our daily lives greatly differs from yours being part of a minirity. Im not saying you don't have A black friend or A queer friend or AN asian friend. but so do I. if you want to learn from thesse minorities it is your responsibility to say, go to culturefest today (not for the delicious food but to talk to the poeple there) to go to a bubble tea discussion at the asian american center, attend a qsa event or one of the gapril happenings. go to the culture houses for more than booze on a friday or saturday night. you may feel uncomfortable at first in these situations, but no more than when an individual of ANY obvious manority walks into a room (most rooms in fact) and eyes turn because he/she is different.
Your name
Wed Apr 8 2009 09:28
it is not self-segregation. i am pretty confident that a majority of your friends are white males with tame religious values like yourself. it is finding people you can relate to and understand how our daily lives greatly differs from yours being part of a minirity. Im not saying you don't have A black friend or A queer friend or AN asian friend. but so do I. if you want to learn from thesse minorities it is your responsibility to say, go to culturefest today (not for the delicious food but to talk to the poeple there) to go to a bubble tea discussion at the asian american center, attend a qsa event or one of the gapril happenings. go to the culture houses for more than booze on a friday or saturday night. you may feel uncomfortable at first in these situations, but no more than when an individual of ANY obvious manority walks into a room (most rooms in fact) and eyes turn because he/she is different.
have you ever questioned which gender-specified lockerroom to go into?
Wed Apr 8 2009 09:27
it is not self-segregation. i am pretty confident that a majority of your friends are white males with tame religious values like yourself. it is finding people you can relate to and understand how our daily lives greatly differs from yours being part of a minirity. Im not saying you don't have A black friend or A queer friend or AN asian friend. but so do I. if you want to learn from thesse minorities it is your responsibility to say, go to culturefest today (not for the delicious food but to talk to the poeple there) to go to a bubble tea discussion at the asian american center, attend a qsa event or one of the gapril happenings. go to the culture houses for more than booze on a friday or saturday night. you may feel uncomfortable at first in these situations, but no more than when an individual of ANY obvious manority walks into a room (most rooms in fact) and eyes turn because he/she is different.






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