News
August 31
Sophomore Paco Gelpi came to Tufts expecting to find a welcoming community and a good education. Two years later, he is leaving school and returning to his homeland of Puerto Rico, frustrated with the community on the Hill and the grades he earned here. As a freshman, he tried to make friends with the people in his hall, but had trouble connecting with them. "When I got here, I had a completely different idea of what I was going to find here. I expected people to be warm and friendly," he said. But Gelpi couldn't help noticing that the majority of Tufts students he encountered held values and attitudes inconsistent with those of his homeland. "I expected people to be friendly... not intimate, but close, warm people. I found completely the opposite." Now, he leaves Tufts feeling that Americans and Puerto Ricans are fundamentally different, despite a common perception that the two are inexorably linked. "People here are too independent. They follow their own way and think mainly about themselves. "The thing that shocked me the most was that people here are very cold," he said, explaining that the common, friendly gestures he practiced in Puerto Rico - a kiss on the cheek or a hug followed by a firm handshake - are looked down upon in the United States. That same intimacy gap confronted sophomore Candice Chipman, who grew up in the Bahamas. "In the Bahamas, people walk by and say 'Good morning,' 'Good afternoon,' 'Good evening,' and 'hello' all the time," she said. When Chipman first arrived at Tufts, she continued the custom of greeting people on the street - even the ones she didn't know - but the practice didn't last long. "People started looking at me like I was strange. So, I abstained from greeting a lot of people. I have to remember when I go home to switch back to being friendly," she said. Statistically, Tufts boasts a diverse community: Asian Americans, Blacks/African Americans, Hispanics/Latinos, and Native Americans compose 25 percent of the community, and 70 foreign countries are represented among the student body. Despite the heterogeneous nature of the student body, adjusting to the American way of life continues to challenge many foreign students. Senior Tracy Rebe, who grew up in South Africa, said that she went through a similar kind of culture shock when she came to the US. "It has taken a very long time [to adjust]. I didn't really know what to expect when I came to America. I had visited only once," she said. Rebe's first years in America undid her long-held notions of American culture, much of which she learned through American television shows. She took particular note of the difference in attitudes and cultural values between Americans and South Africans. "People have a different appreciation for different things here. People think differently, dress differently, talk differently, and misunderstand me a lot of the time," she said. Rebe's South African accent, she finds, is always a hot topic of conversation. "Most people I meet are interested in hearing about where I am from - it's one of the first things they want to talk about," she said. This attention sometimes disturbs her. "A lot of time people are more interested in my accent than what I am saying." Despite a sense of complacency with her education and life at Tufts, Rebe still feels slightly displaced. "Even now, I don't feel quite at home," she said. Language also proved problematic for Gelpi when he first arrived here from Puerto Rico. Unlike Rebe, English was not his first language, but rather a subject he studied in school for "four days a week for 43 minutes." It was one thing to study English in school, Gelpi said, and quite another to come to America and think in English. "That gave me a really hard time, especially during tests," Gelpi explained. Gelpi's difficulties with the English language negatively affected his grades, of particular concern because of his medical school aspirations. He hopes that his grades will improve when he returns to Puerto Rico to get his college degree at another university. Even though he will miss the strong friendships he has forged with members of Tufts' Latino community, he looks forward to returning home. From the start of his college career, Gelpi said that he never became accustomed to life in America. He could not ignore the glaring differences between the Latino culture from which he hailed and the American culture in which he was suddenly immersed. Growing up in San Juan, he was surrounded by a communal environment. "In the Latin culture, we help each other. We think in terms of a collective number of people," he said. "Not that I expected [that attitude] here, but I thought it could happen. It just never did." For other international students, the adjustment to life at Tufts was somewhat smoother. Sophomore Mikah Mutoh, who grew up in Japan, found the transition to life in America relatively painless. Mutoh, whose mother is American, grew up in a bilingual household. The Japanese school she attended had a relatively good English program and Mutoh felt comfortable with the language when she came to Tufts, although she said it was an adjustment for her to take her classes in English. Even though she feels that Japanese and American cultures are different in many ways, she also sees a number of similarities. "The pop culture in Japan is similar in the younger generations to pop culture in America. Students talk about the same kind of things. I haven't felt isolated," she said. Mutoh lives in the Start House and is also a peer leader for Asian-American freshmen, but she does not limit her activities to strictly Asian-related organizations. She maintains a diverse group of friends and keeps herself busy with activities outside of her culture, such as the fencing team. She sees herself as a type of chameleon, flitting back and forth between American and Japanese culture. "It is good to always keep that culture inside of you, but if you try to force it in a culture that's not that culture, it's hard to maintain. Being here, I don't feel it necessary to bring [Japanese] culture into my life because I'm not in it," she said. For those whose cultures draw strongly on religion, adapting to American society can prove problematic. As a Muslim, sophomore Waqas Al-Adawi, who is from Oman, a small nation on the tip of the Arabian peninsula, finds it difficult to observe certain religious holidays. "Ramadan is a huge family-oriented thing. You fast from dawn to sunset and when sunset comes, it is time to eat," he explained. To fast for a month without the support of his family is a challenge for Al-Adawi. "Coming to Tufts, that is a huge part missing from my life. It is a different experience celebrating Ramadan back home since everyone around you is fasting," he said. For some, maintaining that link to their heritage is essential. Junior Arti Anand, a first-generation ?©migr?© from Indian, the need to preserve her heritage remains a strong part of her life at college. Although Anand grew up on Long Island, her parents hail from New Delhi, and she feels strong ties to her Hindu roots. "Indian culture has always been a big part of my family life," she said. Anand, fluent in Hindi, grew up eating Indian food for dinner, celebrating all the Hindu holidays, and wearing traditional outfits on special family occasions. She has become integrated into the Asian community at Tufts, and in greater Boston. On campus, she directed a segment of TASA's (Tufts Association of South Asians) annual culture show, and attends Indian parties, and various social gatherings at school and in the city. "The community is pretty tight knit. I see a lot of familiar faces at these gatherings," she said. At the same time, however, Anand knows that observing her culture cannot come first in her everyday routine. "That's how I've grown up, living as a minority in the United States. I know it no other way. My culture has never been a priority... but that's normal," she said. With so many foreign and first-generation students from so many backgrounds, opportunities abound for American students to learn about other cultures. The question remains: Do students make the effort to understand traditions and heritages distinct from their own? Associate Professor of Socio-Cultural Anthropology Rosalind Shaw feels that Tufts students, and in fact all Americans need to become actively involved in the international community. "What Americans ought to be doing is becoming more culturally literate and aware of international affairs," she said. She stressed that most people in the world know US news and are able to speak English. "People in America aren't flexible about developing different ways of listening. I don't think the onus is on [international students] to get rid of their accents. The onus is on [Tufts students] to become aware of different accents and histories and seek them out," she said. Then again, for students who are a part of these minority or foreign cultures, the shock of coming to college can be a valuable learning experience. Anand feels that a lot of Indian students truly find their culture once they come to Tufts. She sees herself as a minority in the sense that she is one of the few people she knows who speaks Hindi. "It is easy when you're a minority to think that your culture is not cool. When you see a bunch of kids celebrating their culture, it is a good thing because they discover another part of themselves," she said. In this process of self-awareness, Anand believes that cultural organizations play an important role. "[They] celebrate culture and bring about awareness. It is important to educate people. The more open-minded people are, the more unity there will be in the population," she said. Chipman, who serves as president of the Caribbean Club, also emphasized the importance of educating the student population about her culture. She has found that people have many misconceptions about Caribbean culture in the US. Many Americans - though not necessarily Tufts students - tend to ask questions about Bahaman culture when they discover where Chipman is from. "Where's your grass skirt, or do you live in a hut?" she said, giving an example of the line of questioning she often encounters. "I wonder - is that person trying to make fun of [people from Bahamas], or do they really not know?"