Elisha Sum | InQueery
February 21Last November, Kevin Troughton, in a piece for the Guardian, said that "the ‘straight−acting' are in the ascendency." Easily gleaned from the term itself, straight−acting refers to gay men (femme−butch in the context of lesbians will not be discussed) who do not fit the gay stereotype and conform to gender expectations. Often, the word appears in personals and online dating profiles as a trait and/or preference, valorizing normative gender behavior and interests. And if the word itself isn't used, other formulations (e.g. no femmes, masculine, butch) can imply the same meaning. In effect, the term essentializes sexuality, suggesting that gay men act in one manner and straight men act in another. It creates another binary that divides and discriminates and perhaps speaks to the self−image of gay men and their desires.

