You just took a phenomenal shower. Hot, steamy, the perfect prelude to a night out.
You walk around your room naked, considering your wardrobe options for the evening. Dance in front of your mirror for a bit, peruse your closet and move to the most important drawer in your bedroom.
No matter what choice you make for tonight's ensemble, your next decision will dictate the night. Choosing the proper panties is absolutely imperative.
Open your drawer and consider the options. You've got quite the assortment in there: sexy thongs, comfy thongs, lacy thongs, see-through thongs, g-strings, bikinis, boy shorts, briefs and a few you don't remember buying. But before reaching in for tonight's panties, think about how each one of them makes you feel.
You wouldn't invite a frenemy to party with you - they don't make you feel good. The same rule applies to your panties. You want confidence, intimacy and support. Don't compromise, accessorize.
How many times have you been told "it's what's on the inside that counts"? Damn right it is. You're not going to order another martini, flirt with that cutie in the corner or dance like J-Lo unless you've got some barely-there black and lacy little panties adorning your tushie.
Panties are empowering, and having sexy ones on changes your entire attitude. You walk around with a knowing smile on your face because baby, you know. You're not ashamed if a little lace shows when you sit down. You have no concern if the wind blows up your mini for a second.
Wearing sexy lingerie is like walking into an exam prepared with all the answers. You're not stressed, you're not panicky. You're wearing a little pink panty with bows and ribbons - no cramming necessary. With confidence like that you're guaranteed a perfect score.
The confidence bestowed by your bottoms is crucial. If you think you can go shopping for clothes while wearing beige full-coverage briefs, you're gravely mistaken. Nothing will look good, nothing will feel good, and your purchasing power will be compromised. How do you intend to try on a tight LBD while sporting a VPL? Visible panty lines have no room in a little black dress.
The girl who walks into class with an air of security, sassiness and internal confidence got it somewhere. It's not because her hair is perfect. It's not the Prada boots she's wearing. It's the lemon yellow Cosabella thong she picked out that morning.
She may have sprayed an extra spritz of perfume to stimulate the senses and worn a v-neck to get the girls noticed, but those panties are just for her. They're her secret weapon and internal artillery against any attack. Weapon of mass destruction? No. Weapon of mass seduction.
Wearing sexy panties is motivation to be sexier. When you feel sexy, you are sexy and that's essential. But if you're decked out and sporting some scandalous skivvies, you've gotta share the wealth!
Seeing a girl in barely there underwear is a huge turn-on for men. Aside from physical contact, teasing a boy with the hypothetical possibility that he might touch your tush while wearing teeny trousers is tantalizing.
And if you've got on the sexiest little thong with a guy you like, share your secret. Slide off your Sevens and show him what you're made of. A little striptease never hurt anyone.
Sexiness and confidence are not teachable traits. You can't go to school to learn them. Lucky for you, you already know the best private tutors in the business. They reside in that top drawer; slinky and silky, lacey and lusty, your panties are here for hire.
