News
November 27
Senior Boryana ("Bory") Damyanova was struck and killed by two cars while crossing the street near Davis Square on the night of Tuesday, Nov. 22. Damyanova, 22, was an international student from Sofia, Bulgaria. She was double-majoring in international relations and economics. At approximately 6:20 p.m. on the evening of Nov. 22, Somerville Police reports said Damyanova was hit by the first car -- a Lincoln sedan -- at the intersection of Broadway and Wallace Street, just a little outside Powder House Circle, in Somerville. After she was hit by the first car, she was flung into the opposite lane and a second vehicle -- a pickup truck -- traveling in the opposite direction, hit her as well. According to police statements in the Somerville Journal, Damyanova did not suffer -- she died instantly. Both drivers of the cars stopped after the incident and Damyanova was taken to Somerville Hospital, where she was officially pronounced dead. According to police reports, no alcohol was involved and no charges have been filed against the drivers of the cars. Further investigation of the accident has been turned over to State Police, as one of the drivers of the vehicles which struck Damyanova has a relative in the Somerville Police Department, Somerville Police Chief Robert Bradley said. Representatives from both the State Police and Tufts University Police Department could not be reached for comment. According to an e-mail sent out on the afternoon of Nov. 23 by Heather Barry, Associate Director of the Institute for Global Leadership, to the 2003-2004 Education for Public Inquiry and International Citizenship (EPIIC) class -- of which Damyanova was a member -- Damyanova was on her way to spend Thanksgiving Break in Montreal, Canada. Friend and fellow Bulgarian student senior Guergana Petkova confirmed that information, adding that Damyanova was on her way to visit her boyfriend, who goes to school at McGill University. Dean of Students Bruce Reitman sent an e-mail to the Tufts community later that evening about the loss of Damyanova and contact information for Damyanova's parents who reside in Bulgaria. Damyanova's mother, Dr. Penka Damyanova, is a professor at the University of Sofia and her father, Iskren Damyanov (in Bulgaria, a male's last name does not have an "a" at the end), is an employee of a large adhesive company.An extraordinary patron Damyanova was born on Sept. 20, 1983 and was from the city of Sofia -- the capital of Bulgaria -- which is as metropolitan a city as you can get in Bulgaria, Petkova said. (Although Petkova's family is from Bulgaria, they currently reside in Florida and she attended high school in the United States.) Damyanova attended the American College of Sofia -- a private, English-language school and, according to Petkova, she was fluent in Bulgarian and German. In Bulgaria, children do not begin school until they are around seven years old, which is relatively late compared to children in the United States. "I remember when I first met Bory, she was always asking me, 'Am I going to be the oldest one [in our class]?' and I would say, 'Yes, yes, you will be,'" Petkova said. Damyanova was able to attend Tufts as an undergraduate thanks to her sponsor, University trustee and alumnus Bruce Male ('63). In a Nov. 23 Boston Globe article, Male, from his home in Florida, said he had known Damyanova "since the day she landed in Boston," where they met for the first time at Logan International Airport. "She was truly the daughter in the family that we never had," he said. Director of the Institute for Global Leadership Sherman Teichman called Male "extraordinary." "He was her patron, he helped to support her here, he loves this University," Teichman said. Male is the president and co-founder of American International Bakeries, Italy's original producer of bagels and supplier of American-style muffins. He is also the founder, chairman and chief executive officer of the Malden, Mass.-based TravCorps Corporation. Male also serves at the Chair of the University's International Board of Overseers, which, according to its Web site, "comprises alumni, parents and friends of the University... Their goals include improving and expanding the international reputation and reach of Tufts University as well as ensuring that the Tufts experience is as international as possible."'If she wasn't understanding, no one was' Throughout her Tufts career, Damyanova was highly active and involved in the Institute of Global Leadership, where she held her first job during her freshman year. She also worked at the Department of Political Science and at the Off-Campus Housing Resource Center during her sophomore year, and was a member of the Tufts Ballroom Dance team. Damyanova was an outstanding student, with a 3.72 grade-point average and, according to her profile on the 2003-2004 EPIIC Web site, she wanted to eventually combine her interests in business and law and become a corporate lawyer. Her two advisors at the University were Richard Eichenberg in the political science department and Drusilla Brown in the economics department. Nearly two years ago to the day of the accident, Damyanova attended Thanksgiving dinner at Eichenberg's house. In the Nov. 23 Boston Globe article, Eichenberg said Damyanova was "such a happy, bright student who brought light to people when she entered a room." In the same article, Brown said Damyanova was a special and a unique student. "She was a real intellectual in a way that a lot of students aren't. Often I would look to her to see if other students were understanding. If she wasn't understanding, then no one was," she said. Teichman, who said he knew Damyanova all four years, said he was "devastated" by the news of her death. He said that, throughout his career at the University, he has worked with approximately 800 students and this is the first one he has lost. "If you knew this woman...you would know that she had vibrancy and a joy for life, she was boundless...and it is so hard to think of her not with us," he said. "[Her death] is the... antithesis of everything she exuded around people...This student was extraordinary, ebullient, a life-affirming force and she appreciated everything about this University." "She had a real love of life and excitement about exploring a broad range of activities," Barry said. Teichman also said that she was chosen by the 2003-2004 EPIIC class to explain and introduce the EPIIC Symposium that year. "It is grotesque to think of a world without her," he said. 'Are you sure you want to go out like that?' "Bory was... a very busy person," Petkova said. "She had so many jobs." From local internships to traveling abroad for research or presentations, Damyanova took her education to new heights. About two years ago, Damyanova was an intern at an investment office at Century Bank in Boston, according to the Nov. 23 Boston Globe article. During her internship with Century Bank, Damyanova was credited with reorganizing the bank's entire computer system. For Spring Break 2004, Damyanova and senior Thomas Singer traveled to Dubai in the United Arab Emirates for their EPIIC project, "The Cultural Impact of American Multinational Corporations" -- a trip Damyanova "valued tremendously," Barry said. Damyanova and Singer investigated and researched advertising changes based on cultural issues in Dubai. But soon enough, Damyanova and Singer had to find a way to deal with some cultural issues just to get into their hotel. "[Damyanova] and Thomas had to pretend they were married, since single women from Eastern Europe were not allowed in, for fear of prostitution trade," Barry said. "That became a running joke in their EPIIC class." Singer said Damyanova's flair for fashion sometimes clashed with the more traditional views on women's dress in Dubai. "The fact that [the United Arab Emirates] is a Muslim country didn't seem to deter her from wearing skirts and sleeveless shirts in Dubai," he said. "Before walking out of our hotel, I'd ask her, 'Bory, are you sure you want to go out like that?' She never felt the need to change her dress style." Damyanova also befriended an Iranian family sitting near her and Singer in the desert. Singer said he remembers Damyanova exchanging e-mails with one of the girls from the family. In June 2004, Damyanova made yet another trek overseas to France for a meeting of the University's International Board of Overseers. As an international student, she intimated to the board that fund-raising for an international student scholarship was needed. For the fall semester of her junior year, Damyanova studied in Washington, D.C. with the Tufts-in-Washington program. In the summer of 2005, Damyanova worked for the Cambridge, Mass.-based mobile media company Scoot Adz as a Marketing and Logistics Manager, contributing to the company's Web site. "She was very into Web design," Petkova said. During the same summer, she attended the Tuck Business Bridge Program, sponsored by Dartmouth College, in Hanover, N.H. The program is a four-week long commitment for students, and includes training in leadership, finance, marketing and accounting. Petkova said Damyanova was "one of those people who came [to Tufts] and knew exactly what she was going to do, right away. Freshman year she told me she was going to major in IR and economics, and that's exactly what she did." This year, Damyanova was working part-time in Boston and lived in the Latin Way apartment complex -- the same on-campus housing she has had since sophomore year. Teichman said that shortly before her death, Damyanova had just accepted a job offer at Citibank in New York City. Peers recall 'a truly special friend' Damyanova's friends at Tufts are still in shock over the news and remember an extremely outgoing, gregarious and promising young woman. "When somebody dies, it's like something is missing," Petkova said. Petkova originally "met" Damyanova over the Connection2006 Internet forum, hosted by the University for incoming freshmen over the summer of 2002. "I remember some of the things she had listed under her interests in her profile, such as 'motorcycles' and 'driving fast cars,'" Petkova said. "And when we arrived on campus, she introduced me to the other Bulgarian students she knew." According to Petkova, there isn't much of a Bulgarian community or presence at Tufts. Part of the reason for this is that there simply are not many of them. "I think there's probably something like ten Bulgarian students," Petkova said. Also, Petkova said she believes that every single international student from Bulgaria attended the same high school -- the American College of Sofia. "So they already know each other," she said. As for how the international Bulgarian students meet the Bulgarian students who have been living in the United States, Petkova said, "We just find each other. You hear somebody speaking Bulgarian and you're like, 'Hey...'" She also said there have been some dinners among the Bulgarian students at Tufts over the years. There is even a Facebook.com group called "Friend of Bulgaria at Tufts," which currently boasts a total of ten members. Other friends who met Damyanova through extracurricular activities or classes said they will always remember her spirit and profound contributions to everything she did. "She was always really friendly and energetic," senior Ashley Ward, a former captain of the Tufts Ballroom Dance team, said. "She made a great teammate... That's what I remember most about her." Matan Chorev (LA '05), a first-year student at the Fletcher School, was a classmate of Damyanova's in the EPIIC program. "Bory's vitality is both epitomized by and an embodiment of what the Tufts community, and specifically our experience together in EPIIC, means to many of us," he said. "She was Tufts: international, civically and intellectually engaged, a leader. Even more so, she was a friend -- a truly special friend to so many people on this campus." Fellow EPIIC alumna and friend Lisa BonoCorredor (LA '04) said Damyanova's story should serve as an inspiration to all. "In her 22 years of life, she touched more people's lives and accomplished more than most people do in a typical 80 or 90-year-long life," BonoCorredor said. "She will always be remembered and I will think of her story every day of my life, at any moment when I am feeling lazy or complaining about what I need to do, and every single time I cross the street."Parents with high expectations Though Damyanova's parents were not interviewed for this article, Petkova had met them a couple of times and even spent some time with them in Bulgaria, when she was performing research for her EPIIC project her sophomore year. Both of Damyanova's parents are fluent in English, which, according to Petkova, is rather rare among the adult population in Bulgaria. "I remember being very impressed by that," she said. While visiting Bulgaria for her project, Petkova said that Damyanova's mother invited her to sit in on one of her classes, which involved Bulgarian students giving presentations in English. Damyanova's parents also took Petkova out to dinner and were "always asking me how Bory was doing, and if I could bring packages to her." Damyanova was an only child and her parents have visited Tufts a few times over the years, Petkova said. "[Damyanova] was very close to her parents, and it was hard enough for them to let their child go to school so far away." Petkova said she remembered one dinner in particular with Damyanova and her parents at one of the dining halls at Tufts. "It's always a real shock for Bulgarians to come to the United States and see the kind of food that we eat here. And when Bory's mom saw her at school once, she did the typical Bulgarian mother thing and started saying, 'You're getting so fat! Just eat salads!' And Bory did and she lost all her freshman weight," Petkova said. "But I just remember sitting there, listening to her mom and thinking, 'Oh man, that's exactly what my mom would have said to me if she were here.'" But like many parents, Damyanova's parents' main concern was not with dining hall fare, but with school work and securing post-graduation plans. "Her parents were always asking, 'Have you been interviewing for jobs? Where have you been interviewing? Where are you looking?'" Petkova said. "Her parents had high expectations for her and she had high expectations for herself, but at the same time, she knew how to have fun." Petkova said she would try to get in touch with Damyanova's parents later this week.A Web site for celebration of life and remembrance In his e-mail on Wednesday evening, Reitman said that, due to the Thanksgiving holiday, a coming together of the Tufts community "must wait until we return to campus." He said the University counselor on-call would be available for support throughout the holiday by contacting the Tufts Public Safety Department. At the end of his e-mail, Reitman said, "We will send out additional information as it becomes available." While no official University remembrance ceremony has been announced yet, to remember Damyanova, the Institute of Global Leadership has created a Web site in her memory: http://www.tuftsgloballeadership.org/bory_damyanova.htm. Additions to the Web site are encouraged and can be approved by visiting the site and contacting Ben Mann at the Institute. Teichman said the Institute is "starting to get absolute slews of responses to the Web site from all over the world." "Now is a time to grieve and to mourn, but soon there will be a time to celebrate her," Teichman said. He added that the Institute -- as well as the University -- is working on an appropriate remembrance of Damyanova. "The pain is searing; the only upside of this is to recognize the community she has created," he said. "Everybody's just trying to make sense of something that doesn't make sense," Barry said. The Institute is also sponsoring a gathering at its office this evening at 9 p.m. Those who knew Damyanova are invited to attend and share thoughts and memories.